Repeat after me: “If I want to be a millionaire I must help a million people.”
My life isn’t perfect and I’m far from being fiscally rich, but i’m pretty fortunate. That’s why I try to do what I can to help others, give back and be the reason for someone’s smile when I can. However, when I hear about large donations from people such as Akon giving electricity to 600 hundred people in Africa or Will & Jada Smith donating nearly $1,000,000 to the Lupus foundations, it’s easy to to feel like the little things I am capable of doing doesn’t matter. Even the smaller scale random acts such as buying groceries for the person in line behind you or making the payment on a lay-a-way item seems out of reach for people who are barely getting by but has a desire to help someone. And of course, volunteering with some organization is an option but that is difficult if you happen to be someone who has three jobs and work around the clock to make ends meet. It can all be rather depressing thinking I can’t make an impact the way I would like.
I can’t be the only one thinking, “There’s gotta be a way for people like me who aren’t rich in time or money to help others and give someone else a reason to smile.” It’s time we stop thinking that committing random acts of kindness are reserved for the wealthy. Of course, there are many other inexpensive ways to make people smile. Many of them won’t cost a thing at all. For those who are coming up short on the inexpensive kindness acts, I’ve decided to create a short list to get you going. Hope these inspire you to do good.
Never let a coupon go to waste. Doesn’t matter if the coupon is for an item you don’t need or a store that’s out of reach. A good coupon could be like gold to someone else. Instead, venture out to the store and leave the coupon by the item it can be applied to. Someone shopping for that item will be silently jumping for joy when they see the kind act you did. Cost to you: $0
2. Join the Search
Cost of living is at an all time high so it’s no secret that times are hard. The person who is on the hunt for work knows this all to well. The good thing is there is always hope. Email a job posting to friend who is looking. Or leave a print out of a yoga job ad on your neighbor’s car that says , “Yoga Queen”. Even if she’s not looking, she’ll probably appreciate the gesture. Cost to you: $0
3. Post a Note
I’m convinced Post-it notes are one of the greatest gifts to mankind. I don’t know what I’d do without Post-it notes. They are perfect to use as book marks, reminders to stick on my computer for work and taking phone messages, etc. They are also extremely useful when it comes to random acts of kindness. We all have those days when we feel like we’re ugly, failures and not worth anything. I happen to know that it’s totally not true, but a stranger may not know. That’s why it’s Post-it note to the rescue. Go to the gym and leave a note on the scale that says, “No matter what the scale says, remember you are beautiful.” Or put a note in a library book that says, “You are enough”
Cost to you: $1
4. Carry Groceries
You know whats worse than doing a major grocery run? Bringing all those heavy bags into the house. If you see someone struggling to wrangle groceries, the dog and kids at the same time offer to take a load off and help them carry in the bags. Cost to you: $0
5. Place Hope in a Jar
Mason jars are all the rage now thanks to Pinterest. They are easily accessible and so useful. It only makes sense to use them as a random act of kindness. Take the time to type out 365 happy thoughts on pieces of paper, stuff into a jar and leave a note on the jar that says take daily as needed. (Click here to follow my template) Then leave on a door step, on a coworker’s desk, etc. Cost to you: $1 for jar (and maybe $.50 for printing out the happy thoughts.)
6. Feed the meter
Nothing ruins the day like getting an expensive parking ticket. Save someone from feeling that misery by feeding their meter just a little extra if you notice it may be expiring. Cost to you: $.25
7. Mail it Out
When you know the mail will be filled with bills, bills and more bills checking the mail box can get kind of depressing. But imagine how elated you’d feel if there was a kind note tucked inside. One of my favorite things to do is open up a phone book, randomly pick a name and then send an anonymous card with words of encouragement. The recipient would most likely be tickled with the gesture and get a kick trying to figure out who would send it. Cost to you: $.49
8. Buy a coffee
This may be one of the most popular acts of kindness around. If you are buying yourself some breakfast why not buy a coffee for the person behind you. Cost to you: $1.00
9. Call the manager
You ever notice that we’re quick to complain about something but hesitant to praise? Instead of leaving a bad review, call the store manager and let them about the great service you received from the cashier. Cost to you: $0
Even those these kind acts are not heavy on the wallet they still have the potential to pull on the heart of the recipient. Now that you know how easy it is to make difference, start now. Don’t wait another moment to be the reason for someone’s smile.
10. Money in the dollar store
This is one of my favorites. But every now and then I attach a crisp dollar bill to a toy in the Dollar Tree in the hopes that an eager child might find it. Of course, you can do this for anything in the Dollar Store such as a card, book, mirror, etc. Cost to you: $1 (consider throwing in a few cents if you know it will be taxed.)
Did I miss anything? What inexpensive acts of kindness have you seen or done yourself?
TERRIfic Quip: A true gift is given without expecting anything in return.