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Repeat after me: Just Go.

Have you ever gone somewhere and never really experienced it?  It seems to be the story of my life. I feel like I’ve been to New York, Philadelphia, San Antonia, the Bahamas and so many other places without actually experiencing it. Despite living just about an hour from New York City, I’m ashamed to say that I’ve never walked across the Brooklyn Bridge or even experienced a true New York City roof top bar.

What’s worse is that I’ve barely experienced all my hometown has to offer or the surrounding towns. The town I live in has 13 parks and walkways including a nature preserve filled with bird watching and I’ve only been to about three of those parks. Three!!! That’s pathetic. Plus, I live within a short drive of Princeton and rarely take advantage of it, other than when I teach my Zumba class at the university.

I want to see and do more. Can you blame me? I follow blogs such as The Thought Card, Thirty 30 Courtney, One Girl One World. Of course, I’d have the travel bug. Add the fact that I’ve been traveling internationally since I was about 4 years old, it shouldn’t come as a surprise.  Unfortunately once you grow up and start paying for travel yourself its not as easy to leave the country.

Yes, it's possible to experience 30 different places in less than a year on a budget. That's what my 30 before 30 list is all about.

Yes, it’s possible to experience 30 different places in less than a year on a budget. That’s what my 30 before 30 list is all about.

Though I love traveling I’ve really only visited the same places multiple times including Trinidad, Bahamas, and Baltimore. And what’s worse is I rarely did anything new when I went to those places. It was always the same old thing.

Having realized I’ve seen so much of the world and barely experienced any of it, I’ve decided that I’d do my very own 30 before 30 list. From now until my 31st Birthday, July 2019, I’m challenging myself to visit 30 different cities and truly allow myself to experience them.

While it sounds crazy, recognize “cities” is the operative word there. When I’m on a mission to be debt free, it’s not exactly realistic to travel to 30 countries in a year. That’s why I’m doing this challenge my way. Who said travel, exploration and vacation can only be to far away destinations that require hours of air and drive time and overnight stays? It doesn’t have to be! My 30/30 list only requires that I visit 30 cities and truly experience them. How will I do that? To truly experience each city on my list I’ve decided I need to eat some where notable in the city, do an activity in the city, and take in some culture in the city. Culture can range from visiting a museum, to taking a guided tour or even strolling down Main street. It may not be the most glamorous, or exciting but I figure it will certainly be interesting as I truly experience cities in a way I never have before.

A few of the cities on my list include:

  1. Princeton, NJ
  2. Montclair, NJ
  3. Atlantic City
  4. Baltimore
  5. Hamilton, NJ
  6. Freehold, NJ
  7. New York City
  8. Philadelphia
  9. New Hope, PA
  10. Red Bank, NJ
  11. Chicago
  12. Asbury Park
  13. Washington D.C.
  14. Las Vegas
  15. Pittsburgh
  16. Ocean City
  17. New Brunswick, NJ
  18. Niagara Falls
  19. Lambertville, NJ

To most people reading this list, it’s probably rather boring; especially since there’s so many Jersey towns on the list. But what can I say? I’m a Jersey girl on a budget, trying to experience as much as I can. And to be honest, I’ve actually been to most of the places on this list on multiple occasions. But like I said before, I didn’t really experience them. As much as I loved going to dinner at a friend’s house, it didn’t really allow me to see much of the city. And though these are all relatively small towns they all have a lot to offer. For example, Princeton is home to the university and   Albert Einstein tours while Asbury Park features the historical Stone Pony where Springstein got his start.

I’m still working on my full list of thirty places but I’m sure I’ll think of others soon enough. My list of fairly “local” places to visit allows me to stick to my budget goals so I can pay off debt faster, and allow me to fill my need to explore.

To those who of you who are approaching 30 rather rapidly, and still feel like you have yet to see the world, know that you still have time left. Even if thirty is only a few months or weeks away for you, there are still corners of your world that you can explore. I think people are so focused on traveling the entirety of the world that they forget that where they live is still part of it. And chances are they haven’t looked at where they live through a traveler’s eyes as yet. To that note, I suggest you do what I will. Think of the all the places you’ve been to before but never EXPERIENCED and challenge yourself to experience it. Take a walk in a nice park, take photos of the architecture and characteristics you never noticed before, and go to the quaint diner everyone is always talking about it.

Have you been to the places on my list and suggestion on something I should do? Are you not truly experiencing places you see often? Have you thought about making a 30 before 30 list.

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  1. Sapphire Kharyzma February 5, 2018 at 2:59 pm Reply

    I’ve been to 1-4 & 6-8! There’s lots of great and low key things to get into, without being touristy! Let me know when you’re ready and we can definitely chat…even meet up as I’m close by!

  2. Sabrina Clark February 5, 2018 at 4:00 pm Reply

    This is an awesome idea. I need to do more traveling, I turned 30 last year and there are so many places i would like to see. I tend to revisit places i really liked, but I am challenging myself to get out of my comfort zone and visit new places! Thanks for sharing!

    • Terri February 5, 2018 at 4:04 pm Reply

      Thanks,Sabrina. I feel the same way. I tend just go to the same places I like over and over and never get out of my comfort zone. I think challenging myself to do something cultural, eating something different and an activity will allow me to learn more and satisfy my travel itch.

  3. Jay Colby February 6, 2018 at 10:36 am Reply

    This is a great goal before you turn 30. I’ve always wanted to visit NYC it seems like a great city with a lot of culture.

  4. Mimi Green February 6, 2018 at 2:52 pm Reply

    You are going to have so much fun with this list. I didn’t tour NYC until after I moved from there. Now it’s my favorite place to tour.
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    • Terri February 6, 2018 at 4:59 pm Reply

      Thanks! I”m ashamed to say that I go to NYC multiple times year and never really tour it like I should. I didn’t make to the statue of liberty for the first time until last year. Im really just taking the time to experience the places I see all the time never really enjoyed thoroughly.

  5. Kasi February 7, 2018 at 12:38 am Reply

    This is a great list of cities to explore! Best wishes with achieving your goals before 30!
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  6. Elle (CleverlyChanging) February 7, 2018 at 7:44 am Reply

    I want to say that I lived my best life. I’m on a mission just like you to see as much of the world as I can.

  7. Joyce Brewer February 7, 2018 at 8:30 am Reply

    Love your list. Often we miss some of the hidden gems that are close to us. Can’t wait to see what you find on your journey.
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  8. Kita February 7, 2018 at 11:10 am Reply

    Your list is great. I have some of these things on my list specifically travel. My list is 40 before 40. I have 4 years to get it done. Good luck to you.

  9. Kiwi February 7, 2018 at 11:18 am Reply

    I just turned 30 plus two yesterday and I used to want to keep up with a 30 by 30 or 30 while 30 list and I gave up on it. Thats just me though because I didnt want to pressure myself, but I think your list is practical especially since many is stateside!
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  10. Stacie February 7, 2018 at 11:46 am Reply

    I’m well into my 40’s and I think it’s great to have a list like this. It’s important to make goals for yourself and dreams that you want to reach.

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